“Can I watch this?”
The child sends a specific video request instead of leaving the approved space.
Request waitingThe family technology desk
Clear guidance for the games, videos, devices, and online moments that show up in real family life, plus parent-controlled viewing with PARE Parent and PARE Kids.
Practical next steps. Candid tradeoffs. No fear-first advice.
What PARE means
Parent judgment stays at the center. We explain what to notice, where the tradeoffs are, and what you can do next, without pretending one rule fits every child.
Start with the decision in front of you
Review the pattern, not just one polished video, before adding a creator to the family list.
Read the guideThe settings, conversations, and recovery plan worth doing before the handoff.
Family Habits · 6 min readChange one pressure point at a time without turning the week into a punishment.
PARE Product Guides · 5 min readWhat happens from a child request to a clear parent decision.
The paired PARE apps
PARE Parent is the caregiver control plane. PARE Kids is the child’s approved viewing space. Pair them with an eight-character code, then manage requests, approved videos, channels, schedules, activity, and per-child settings.
PARE Kids is free to download. An active PARE Family subscription unlocks the parent apps, web portal, and paired Kids devices for the household.
Set up a parent accountThe child sends a specific video request instead of leaving the approved space.
Request waitingApprove or deny, manage channel rules, pause access, and see activity for the paired child.
Approved for this familyPARE Family
Start with seven days free if eligible, then choose the pace that fits your family. Billing is handled by Apple in PARE Parent.
See pricing and billing detailsAnnualSave about 33%
$39.99per year
MonthlyFlexible month to month
$4.99per month
Inside PARE Parent
These screens are rendered from a privacy-safe demonstration household. They show the same web portal parents use to review activity and make per-child media choices.


Across the family technology stack
PARE covers what families actually choose: video, games, movies, books, connected devices, privacy settings, social features, and the habits that connect them.
When everything feels urgent
You do not need a perfect technology policy by tonight. Pick the point of friction you can see.
Bedtime, autoplay, a new game, a first phone, or a request you are unsure about.
Look at what the service does next when nobody intervenes.
Make it observable and easy to explain, not a vague promise to “be safer.”
Adjust with your child after you have real evidence from family life.
Why this desk exists
PARE Media is a practical publication and a paired-app product for caregivers raising children around connected technology. We name tradeoffs, separate verified capabilities from advice, and update guides when the decision changes.
Our guidance is educational, not medical, legal, or clinical advice.
Make the next call with context